1. Login to your account.
2. If you are a contestant then if you want the message me button to show up you need to uncheck the box that says, "Hide Messages".
If you just claimed a profile that was previously owned by admin then your message me button will automatically show up about 2 hours after your claim request was approved.
Experts & Pageants:
Your message button should be showing automatically, however, if it's not click here to contact us and we will activate it for you.